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4 Ways to Improve Your Meditation Skills

Meditation is a highly personalized activity. You may meditate first thing in the morning or in the middle of the afternoon. You may meditate laying down or sitting up. You may meditate for two minutes or two hours. You may only meditate when you want to connect with a spirit or you may meditate every single day. The following are suggestions to help make meditation as productive and easy for you as possible.

ELIMINATE DISTRACTIONS

It goes without saying that you don't want to be distracted while meditating. Not only is it important to eliminate distractions it is also vital to eliminate the possibility of distractions. Don't just tell yourself that no one is going to call; take the step of actually turning your phone off. Don't meditate ten minutes before your partner is due to walk in the door; give yourself plenty of time when you know that no one will be coming home. When you don't eliminate the possibility of distractions your brain may be focused on waiting for the phone to ring, waiting for your partner to walk in the door. Let your brain be at ease knowing that there will be no distractions.

CAREFULLY CHOOSE YOUR LOCATION

Don't settle for less when it comes to choosing where you are going to meditate. Make sure that every single part of your body is relaxed, at ease, and comfortable. Use your creativity to find the best location. It may be on the couch with your feet propped up, sitting on the floor with a pillow supporting you, you may find yourself plopped down on your favorite recliner or sitting outside on a lounge chair. Also pay attention to the temperature. Are you too warm? Too cold?

CHOOSE A GOAL

Why is it that you are meditating? Will you make judgments as to whether it was a successful meditation? What will you base those judgments on? You may be seeking insight on a question you have. For example, wanting to know if you should take a new job. Perhaps you want to connect with your Spirit Guide. Maybe you want mental clarity and improved concentration. Perhaps you've had a stressful day and just want to feel calmer and more relaxed. At the beginning of each meditation set a goal for yourself. It helps to structure your meditation a bit and make it more productive for you.

TRY OUT DIFFERENT MEDITATION TECHNIQUES

Not only is there more than one way to meditate there are dozens of ways. Some of the more popular techniques include:

Focus on your breathing: Take deep breaths in through your nose, hold for a count, then exhale through your mouth. For example: breathe in for a count of six, hold for a count of four, and exhale for a count of six.

Guided Meditation: There are hundreds, if not thousands, of guided meditation recordings. Guided mediation recordings come in a variety of subjects. Some help you to relax, others help you to connect to a spirit guide, some help you to receive insight from your Higher Self. See if guided meditation works for you.

Do an activity: Meditation doesn't have to involve sitting down and being still. You may find that your meditation is much more productive if you are engaged in an activity. Some people choose to meditate while gardening, others while exercising. Many people find it helpful to meditate while in nature. Perhaps while going for a walk or sitting on a bench in their garden.

Listen to a fountain: In recent years decorative water fountains have become popular. You can pick one up at Target or Wal-Mart for under $20. You may find the sound of the fountain to be very relaxing.

TO CONCLUDE

Meditation is an individualized exercise. Don't force yourself into believing that it must be done a certain way. It doesn't. Meditate in a way that works for you. Be creative and try out different techniques. Best of luck to you!

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7 Easy Ways to Improve Your Meditation

A lot of people find mastering meditation to be a big challenge. The key to meditation is consistent practice, practice, practice, which takes time. In the meantime here are some tips to help you with wherever you are at.

1. Correct Posture

Keep your back straight. It should not be jammed upright or slouching. Imagine a string attached to the top of your head pulling your whole spine upwards. Psychology follows physiology so a straight spine sends a signal to your system, which says you are ready and alert. So a straight back will help you breathe better as your chest will be more expanded, which in turn will help your mind focus better and stay with your meditation. Energy will also flow better up your spine and through your energy centres (Chakras).

2. Focus on Breath to Stop Thoughts Wandering

The most common issue for most people when trying to meditate is that the mind won't keep quiet. Of course our mind is designed to think! We get one idea, then another, then another and we feel like we have a non-stop flow of thoughts. Even when we need relaxation, peace and quiet it keeps going.

But this only happens when we keep listening to it. Just make a decision that meditation will help you much more than all the thinking and take your attention to your breath. Every time your attention wanders just gently bring it back to your breath.

3. Set Your Intention for the Meditation

A good way to prevent the constant flow of thoughts is to set an intention. E.g deeper meditation, focus, calm, joy etc. Feel the intention connect you to a deeper place within yourself. When your mind starts up during your meditation however long it is 10-60 minutes, just gently remind it of your intention. You will find it much easier to stay focused!

4. Perform a Ritual

We are often programmed to do something automatically e.g brush our teeth, get dressed. In the same way you can 'program' yourself to get into a meditation by preforming a ritual. Rituals are like a 'warm up' for your mind and body getting you ready to meditate.

The idea is to always use a particular action or set of actions:

e.g Light a candle and incense sticks.

Sit in a particular part of your home in a particular chair

Have a statue in a corner of your home with essential oils in an oil burner

Sit up in bed first thing in the morning and drink a glass of water

Sit up in bed last thing at night and drink a glass of water

Follow any of the above with immediate meditation.

When you do this regularly, your mind and body links the two things together - the ritual and meditation. So whenever you perform the ritual your mind goes into meditation much faster. The more you repeat the process of ritual and meditation the easier it is to get into a meditative state.

5. Stop Beating Yourself Up

The best way to guarantee you can't meditate is to get angry with yourself for having thoughts. As stated before our mind is designed to think. A famous Tibetan saying is: "Trying to meditate without thoughts is like trying to have meat without bones."

Getting angry or into a panic will only prevent you from getting the calm you are looking for from meditation. Some useful methods:

- imagine your thoughts as being like clouds. Just let them float across the sky of your mind without trying to grab hold of them.

- put your thoughts in a big suitcase, and put the suitcase outside the room. You can pick it up later if you want!

-imagine your thoughts as being like horses galloping away. Just let them gallop out of your mind!

The more you can just accept what is going on and tune back into your meditation, the sooner you will reach the state you are aiming for.

6. Focus On a Particular Point

When your mind is getting very busy, focus on a particular point:

- the point underneath your nose, just before your top lip

- the point between your brows

- turn your eyes above eyeline level

Giving your mind something to focus on keeps it busy so it stops thinking so much.

7. Enjoy the Feeling

When you get feelings that are pleasant just relax into them. Often we get tempted to analyse what is going on. Instead just relax and enjoy what is happening. It will stop you being pulled into thoughts that drag you out of your meditation.

Conclusion

There is no one absolutely right way to meditate. The key is to be flexible. The above techniques have helped many people improve their meditation. Give them a try and see how they work for you!

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Author: Christie Pinto, Life and Wellness Coach
T: (03)9530-0997, M: 0430 465429, E:coaching@clearhorizons.biz


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